attachment to others... when you meet someone of the same sex almost an amount of attachment you feel is fine, the level of attachment equals the level of how close you are and the degree of your friendship bond. now on the other side of the coin we have a certain attachment to the opposite sex or in this day in age chromosome your most sexually interested in. anyhow regardless, you meet someone of this sex and theres an instant bond, you feel a degree of attachment aka you get along but is it societies fault for immediately leading us to believe that this means ur interested in a different kind of relationship with this friend only because they are that missing piece. not only that these thoughts have been programed to begin at a certain age which is part of the difficulty.